A great article John found on when to cut the Umbilical Cord.
Read it here
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Saturday 10 January 2015
Wednesday 20 August 2014
I am not here to fix you!
“I
couldn’t work on your heart chakra” she said, “It just wouldn’t open to let
me”. I had been drawn to go for a Reiki session and was getting feedback after
the session on what had happened.
She was
trying to “fix” my heart chakra and because she felt a wall there she had tried
3 times during the session and couldn’t get in.
Meanwhile
in my head I know my heart chakra is not completely closed, it was just not a
priority for today! My other chakras needed her attention and needed her to
work on them to support and unblock themselves. My heart was fine it just put a
wall up to help guide her to where she was needed. My body shifted to highlight
where it wanted her to work, to guide her to my priorities.
Now my
Reiki practitioner was doing her best with her knowledge and honouring her
system of what she is supposed to be doing. It was a great session, I got a lot
from it. In fact just what I needed!
In the
BodyTalk system we do not go with the intent to “fix” an issue, we just allow
the body to guide us to what needs attention, what the priority is to heal. It
isn’t what we always would choose to work on consciously, we are working at a
deeper level and the body can guide us to what the priority is, the order and
sequence that things need to be done.
Even in
many “holistic” therapies they are still coming with the “fix it” mentality.
From there we are saying we know better than the body-mind, we know what must be
done. Our ego knows best.
But the
body knows how to heal, it knows what the most effective route to health is.
When we cut our finger we do not need to guide the body to heal it, it knows
what to do. But when the communication of the body breaks down, the messages
cannot get through. When there is stress in the body it makes the flow of
communication, chi, energies, blood, lymph… slower or things get mixed up
because there is no synchronicity. It is like an orchestra all out of time – it
sounds awful and won’t be making beautiful music! This is how the body gets
when communication and contraction become the norm.
What we
want to do is, guided by the body, let it show us what communication lines need
re-establishing, where we need to highlight a lack of flow (circulation) to the
brain so it can send all the good stuff and remove all the toxins from that
area. Has a chakra forgotten how to spin? Where in the body needs water? Has an
organ forgotten part of its job?
We can’t
always see what is happening “under the bonnet”, what needs to be observed. If
someone came to me asking me to fix their bad knee, and the session works on
their heart. It isn’t a “bad” session. Maybe they were about to have a heart
attack and the body had given them a bad knee to stop them running around!? We
can’t see the bigger picture, but your body-mind can, it knows and sees
everything. It is far wiser than me or you!
There are
a million things that can get off balance in the body but the innate wisdom of
the body knows which of the million issues, be it postural, inherited traits,
epigenetic, bio-chemical, hydration issues… what the key thing is that will
take the most pressure, overwhelm and stress off the body so it can heal
itself.
In this
way we can take the stress out of your system so it can heal on it’s own. It
makes it easier for it to function and get on with the task of healing.
Yes we
can eat well, do yoga, have fun, meditate, rest, take in good water… but if the
communication in the body breaks down things can still go wrong! We need to
honour that the body-mind will guide you to the thing that will heal you in the
most effective way. And when your ready to heal on a deep level you may get
drawn to BodyTalk where we really listen to what your body is screaming to say.
Your body is always talking to you through pain, what you draw into your life,
how you feel... It is trying to show you what needs to be seen, observed and
work with. We have just forgotten how to listen.
So when I
facilitate your session I am just observing where the priorities are, reminding
your body-mind of the things it needs to remember, letting you guide yourself
to a new possibility of health.
What
comes up in a session isn’t going to always make sense consciously because we
are working on a deeper level of the body-mind. One we don’t communicate well
with due to our filters (belief systems being the biggest block) which stop us
clearly hearing the messages. For example, people want to hear their heart and
the deeper wisdom, but many are blocking that wisdom with all the self-talk
which is clouding the messages. We block these deeper aspects of ourselves and
part of our healing maybe to remove the filtering so we can hear clearly the
inner guide. MindScape is a great tool for this also.
So our
aim in BodyTalk is not to “fix” you, not to make you a “better” person. We
allow your body to heal itself, to let go of the limiting beliefs which have
you imprisoned, remove the stress from the body-mind… allow you to leave a
session feeling like you have a shift in perspective on what is possible for
your own healing on a deeper level. Sometimes the shifts from a session are
big, sometimes they are small. To your body-mind they are just the perfect thing
which was needed in that moment to open up to a new possibility, to de-stress
and allow deep healing to occur.
What better way to treat the body, then by; respecting its complexity,
recognising the amazing extent of its intelligence and understanding of its own
needs. And working with that?
To find out
more, or to book a session - please drop me an email at:
eloise@flourishment.co.uk
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